January 10, 2025

How to Choose the Perfect Stone for a Custom Ring

When it comes to selecting the perfect stone for a custom ring or custom engagement ring, most people immediately think of the traditional criteria known as the 4 Cs: cut, color, clarity, and carat weight. However, choosing a gemstone that truly reflects your partner's personality and the unique bond you share goes far beyond these basic factors.

In this guide, the custom jewelry experts at Eliza Page explore deeper considerations to help you find the perfect gemstone for your custom ring or custom engagement ring, including:

Personal Beliefs & Symbolism
Ethical Sourcing
Sentimental Value
Unique and Rare Stones
Skin Tone
Eye Color
What to Do When You Find that Perfect Stone

Personal Beliefs & Symbolism

Choose a gemstone that holds personal significance or cultural meaning to deepen the connection between the wearer and the ring. This thoughtful approach enables the ring to embody more than just aesthetic value.

Suggested Gemstones

Amethyst: Representing tranquility and clarity, it’s ideal for those who seek balance and calm in their lives.
Aquamarine: Symbolizing courage and truth, it’s perfect for reminding couples to be each other’s refuge in difficult times.
Ruby: These represent passion, inspiring couples to remember the spark that motivated their love story.
Birthstones: Adding a partner’s birthstone reflects their identity and deepens their emotional connection to the ring.

Ethical Sourcing

In today's world, many couples are increasingly conscious of their purchasing decisions. Select ethically sourced gemstones to reflect your commitment to responsible consumption.

Suggested Gemstones

Lab-Grown Diamonds: Eco-friendly stones minimize environmental impact while offering the same beauty as natural diamonds.
Ethically Sourced Sapphires: Sapphires mined under ethical conditions are more appealing to anyone who prioritizes sustainability.

Sentimental Value

Incorporate a sentimental stone into your custom ring or custom-designed engagement ring to create a powerful emotional connection. These stones often carry stories and memories that enrich the ring's significance.

Suggested Ideas

Heirloom Stones: Reusing a gemstone from a family heirloom adds history and sentimentality. This choice makes your engagement ring truly unique.
Gemstones from Special Locations: Stones sourced from places that hold significance for you and your partner infuses the ring with personal meaning.

Unique and Rare Stones

For couples seeking something truly one-of-a-kind, choose a unique gemstone to make a powerful statement. Rare stones often reflect the individuality of the wearer and add a distinct flair to a custom ring or custom-designed engagement ring.

Suggested Gemstones

Alexandrite: Known for its captivating color-changing properties, this stone offers a unique choice for those who appreciate individuality.
Morganite: A stunning peach-pink stone that serves as a beautiful alternative to traditional choices.
Tanzanite: This gemstone features a rarity and vibrancy that make it ideal if you want an extraordinary ring.

Skin Tone

Choose a gemstone that enhances your partner’s natural skin tone to create a striking effect. The right color accentuates their skin tone and makes your custom ring or custom engagement ring even more captivating.

Suggested Gemstones for Pale Skin Tones

People with pale skin often benefit from cool, soft-toned gemstones. These options provide elegance without overwhelming their complexion:

Aquamarine: A delicate blue that adds subtle sophistication to fair skin.
Moonstone: Its ethereal glow works well with the cool undertones of pale skin.
Topaz: Its light shades enhance the coolness in fair skin tones.

Suggested Gemstones for Medium Skin Tones

Warm, vibrant gemstones highlight the natural radiance of medium skin tones:

Garnet: A rich red stone that offers warmth and contrast.
Emerald: This bold green gemstone complements olive and golden undertones.
Ruby: Its fiery red hue looks especially striking on medium skin tones.

Suggested Gemstones for Dark Skin Tones

For darker skin tones, bright and bold gemstones create a beautiful contrast. Here are some excellent choices:

Citrine: A golden-yellow stone that enhances the warmth of darker skin.
Amethyst: Deep purple amethyst adds a rich, vibrant touch.
Sapphire: Bright blue sapphire offers a bold and eye-catching contrast.

Universal Options for All Skin Tones

Some gemstones flatter all skin tones:

Diamond: The classic neutral stone that works on any complexion.
Pearl: Its soft iridescence is universally flattering.
Morganite: A peachy-pink gem that complements various skin tones beautifully.

Eye Color

Match your gemstone to your partner’s eye color to further personalize your custom ring or custom-designed engagement ring. Gemstones that mirror or contrast with their eye color makes both the ring and their features stand out.

Suggested Gemstones for Blue Eyes

For blue-eyed individuals, consider gemstones that either enhance the blue or create a lovely contrast:

Sapphire: Its deep blue shade mirrors blue eyes and creates a seamless blend.
Tanzanite: A violet-blue gemstone that brightens blue eyes.
Diamond: The brilliance of a diamond creates a dazzling contrast.

Suggested Gemstones for Green Eyes

Green-eyed individuals can enhance their eye color with these vibrant gemstone options:

Peridot: A yellow-green gem that intensifies green eyes.
Emerald: Its bold green hue amplifies the beauty of green eyes.
Alexandrite: A color-changing stone that reflects the depth of green eyes.

Suggested Gemstones for Brown Eyes

Brown eyes pair beautifully with warm-toned gemstones. These stones complement their natural warmth:

Amber: The golden-brown shades enhance the richness of brown eyes.
Garnet: A deep red gemstone that contrasts with brown eyes for a bold effect.
Citrine: The bright yellow tones in citrine harmonize with the warmth of brown eyes.

Suggested Gemstones for Hazel Eyes

For hazel eyes, these gemstone options work wonderfully:

Opal: The shifting colors of opal reflect the complexity of hazel eyes.
Smoky Quartz: This soft brown stone brings out the earthy tones in hazel eyes.
Tourmaline: With its wide range of colors, tourmaline complements the varied hues in hazel eyes.

You’ve Found Your Perfect Stone…Now What?

At Eliza Page, we offer a curated selection of diamonds, champagne diamonds, emeralds, and sapphires. But if you find another stone that suits you better — or if an heirloom gemstone has been passed down to you — we can set it into a band for the perfect custom ring.

Schedule Your Design Appointment
Bring Your Chosen Gemstone
We’ll Measure It.
We’ll Design Your Perfect Custom Ring or Custom Engagement Ring!

Please note that there’s a $500 fee for setting center stones.

Design a Custom Ring with Your Chosen Gemstone

To choose the perfect stone for your custom ring or custom-designed engagement ring, you must consider personal factors beyond the traditional 4 Cs. By taking into account skin tone, personal beliefs, uniqueness, ethical sourcing, and sentimental value, you’ll find a gemstone that truly reflects your personal love story.

Once you find the right gemstone for your engagement ring, bring it to Eliza Page so we can finish your design, size the ring, and add any engravings you may want. To create a custom ring or custom engagement ring that captures your vision and celebrates your relationship, schedule a design consultation today.